2016年06月21日

7 Times When It’s Okay to Be Selfish

1. When you want to end your toxic relationship
You stay in toxic relationship for the sake of your partner only. It literally
means that hurting his feelings is bad while hurting your own feelings is absolutely okay. However hard you may try to save the situation, toxic relationships are always doomed. So the earlier you break up the more time you’ll save. Trust me, your guy feels your indifference, pretense and torments and most probably both of you will feel better separately. Don’t regret the wasted time, make advantage of the experience and start a new life alone.
2. When you want to stay at home
Being at home alone is very important to me since I need some me time to recover after a busy week and just enjoy the sanity and silence of my home. But I have some friends who try to get me out to save their evening. I bet every person has a super social fellow who enjoys loud music late at night or who just keeps talking too much. I’ve realized that I don’t have to think up any excuses or lie about how busy I am. ‘I don’t want’ is already a good reason to stay at home. Moreover, you should feel okay to limit your communication with people who bring you down.
3. When you don’t want to celebrate holidays
Each time it comes to my birthday or Christmas or any other big holiday, I feel a little bit stressed. When I grew up I started valuing my time. I know that there are some people in my life I want to spend time with. And it would be very dishonest to pretend that I’m happy to see all those kinsfolk and fellows when in reality I’m not. I’ve been celebrating my birthday with my nearest and dearest only for many years. People resented not being invited to celebrate and I really felt guilty at first. But after all, it’s my holiday and I want to spend it with my close people.
4. When you want to change your job
When you have a really good job and a good boss and colleagues, you might find it dishonest to quit your job. The feeling of guilt and betrayal is even stronger if you plan to leave during a busy period or if you’re a valuable employee. You put off the decision till the next month and the situation repeats over and over. Even though it feels awfully uneasy, you should be determined when it comes to your future. Once you make a decision, you should stick to it.
5. When you feel like a people pleaser
Being a people pleaser means you want everyone around you to be satisfied and happy, even at the cost of your own happiness. Perhaps, you just don’t want to face disappointment and resentment. But each time you satisfy somebody else’s needs you became futher from meeting your own happiness. Learn to say ‘No’ and start doing something for yourself. When you free yourself from manipulations, you’ll feel better both physically and emotionally. You
won’t be so overwhelmed with tasks and you’ll have more time for yourself.
6. When someone’s using your items
I faced this problem when I shared a room with my dormmate. Some people find it acceptable to share their clothes, cosmetics and personal items with their friends, while others cannot accept that. So I’m exactly the person that cannot stand when other people take my things, especially without asking me. When you don’t want your friend to use your things it doesn’t mean you’re greedy and selfish. It means that some things cannot be shared at all. Try to talk to your roommate and establish certain boundaries. In this case you’re not selfish, you just define your comfort zone.
7. When you need a pick-me-up
Finally, it’s okay to be a little bit selfish when you really need help and support. Very often people tend to hold in their feelings and not to burden their friends with their problems. It’s an utterly wrong attitude. Friendship cannot be one-sided, otherwise it will certainly lead to breakdown. After all, friends exist to support you and lend a Skin Care System
helping hand when you’re down. True relationship is about giving and receiving from both parties. So when you feel bad, don’t be afraid to call your friend and ask for a heart-to-heart talk.
Certainly, you shouldn’t be totally indifferent to other people. Going from one extreme to another is also unhealthy. Find a reasonable middle and stick to it. A healthy selfishness can significantly improve the quality of your life and your well-being. Being selfish every now and then is a sure way to happiness and wisdom.

  


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2016年06月17日

Eat Fiber and Avoid Constipation

To have regular bowel movements and escape constipation you
need to eat more fiber. Fiber from raw vegetable and fruits is better for you than fiber from grains. Why? Raw vegetables and fruits are live foods with enzymes, minerals, vitamins, and many antioxidants that are charged electrically. They have a magnetic energy that is absorbed by your DNA. So get more fiber from this source and less from grains.
Don't forget about water. If you don't get enough water during the day, your body will take the water out of your fecal matter in the colon and make your stools hard. Drink a minimum of 3 glasses a day of pure water and work up to drinking 5-6.
Here's where you need to do some "fiber work." You need to increase your fiber intake to around 40 - 60 mg or more. Yes this is a lot. In the past, I recommended 35mg of fiber, but this is an average. You want to have more than the average amount. Here are some foods with high fiber. Add them to your eating habits so that you will not be constipated. Fiber does much more in your colon than make you regular,it:
* combines with toxins and moves them out in your stools
* combines with heavy metal and moves them out in your stools
* combines with cholesterol and bile and prevents them from being reabsorbed into your blood stream.
* helps to prevent colon cancer and other colon diseases.
* keeps your colon walls strong and healthy by not allowing toxins to accumulate there.
* cleans the colon walls and pulls toxins out of colon pockets and holes.
The following foods provide 3 gm of fiber. Add a variety of these foods to your daily diet to get more fiber into your eating habits. Start eating these foods little by little to get use to eating high fiber levels.
* 1/3 cup prunes
* 2 slices of whole wheat bread
* 1/2 cup cooked winter squash
* 1/2 cup fresh cooked green peas
* 1/2 cup cooked kidney beans, or pinto beans, or cowpeas
* 1 cup of cooked barley, 1 1/2 cup of brown rice, 1 cup of millet
* 3 corn tortillas
* 1 1/2 cup spaghetti, 1/3 cup of scholarship spinach spaghetti
* 1/6 cup 100% bran, 1/2 cup cream of wheat
* 1 cup applesauce, 1 cup of apple slices, 1/2 cup of bananas, 1/2 cup figs
* 1 cup fruit salad, 1 cup of prune juice, 1 ounce of raisins
* 1/2 avocado
* 1 cup blueberries, 3/4 cup of cranberries
* 1/3 cup guava, 1 kiwifruit, 1/2 of a mango, 2 nectarines, 1/3 papaya
* 1 orange, 1 cup peach slices, 1 cup pears slices, 1/2 persimmon
* 1 1/2 cup pineapple, 1 cup strawberries
* 1/2 cup raisins, 3/4 cup coconut
* 1/2 cup rhubarb, 1/3 cup of artichoke hearts
* 1.2 ounces of almonds, 1/2 ounce sesame seeds, 1/3 cup of sunflower seeds
* 1/4 cup of baby lima beans, 1/7 cup of black beans, 1 cup green beans
* 1/4 cup of kidney, pinto, white or navy beans, 1/3 cup of lentils
* 1/2 cup broccoli, 1/2 cup Brussels sprouts, 1 cup cabbage
* 2 carrots, 1/2 cup of carrot juice
* 1 cup cauliflower, 5 stalks of celery
* 1 cup of chard, 1 cup of mustard greens
* 1 ear of corn
* 1/2 cup of mixed vegetables
* 1/2 cup of olives
* 1/2 baked potato, 1 baked sweet potato, 1 cup yams
* 1 cup tomato juice, 1 cup vegetable juice
How do you know when you are bvi company setup starting to get plenty of fiber in your diet? When you are getting plenty of fiber in your diet, your stools weigh less and float in your toilet water. So if your stools sink in water then you need more fiber. This is just a general rule. If you eat excess fiber your stools may sink, but I doubt any of you fall in this category.  


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2016年06月06日

How to Prevent Snoring?

Snoring is noisy breathing through the mouth and nose during sleep. It can occur when you are breathing in or out. Snoring is often worse when a person sleeps on his back. Snoring arises when the air passage is blocked which inhibits easy & normal breathing. The sounds are caused by the vibration of the tissues lining the air passages. Most snorers actually don't know they snore.
Prevention is better than cure.. and it applies to snoring too. To help in preventing, you should know the causes of snoring. A better knowledge of the causes would help prevent snoring easily. Putting on weight is one of the causes of snoring. Excluding Obesity and maintaining a healthy weight is therefore the first step in preventing snoring. The most effective manner in which to keep weight under control does not include the use of magical pills or plan. A wholesome diet rich in low fat, nutritious food combined with regular exercise.
A person sleeping on his back is prone to snoring. Hence
sleeping on the sides will help in prevention of snoring. There are many products available in the market that helps people to sleep on the sides. These products help in prevention of snoring. There are many alternative treatments available for prevention of snoring.
Knowing how to keep your tongue while sleeping would help in prevention of snoring. Some people will breath through their mouth. This should be avoided. Prevention of snoring is achieved if mouth breathing is stopped. There are also products that help in keeping your mouth shut while sleeping. Such products are Chin-Up Strip, Snoring Stopper, Snorgon, and Snore Stopper.
Many solutions for snoring are available and are practiced by
many people. A person can try these and pick out that which suits them. Changing the lifestyle of a person is one of the solutions for snoring. Changing lifestyle means, they should change their eating habits and do some exercises to keep themselves fit and lose that extra weight.
Visit : Solutions for Snoring or Home Remedies for Snoring to learn more about snoring prevention.  


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